HERE I AM BECOMING: The Sister Course
HERE I AM BECOMING:
The Sister Course
A Transformative 6-Day Psychoeducational and Illumination Process for Women Impacted by Deceptive Sexuality
42-Hours
5 +1-Day Virtual Session
Group Psychoeducation Process Webinar
+1-Day Virtual (Synthesis & Planning) Process
Has your life been crashed into and turned upside down by the discovery of your partner’s deceptive sexuality and infidelity? Are you feeling overwhelmed, disoriented, lost, and isolated, unable to find solid ground?
You are not alone.
HERE I AM BECOMING: The Sister Course is a safe and sacred space where you can begin to shine the light on the enormity of what has happened, open the doors to potential healing, and ignite your power to reclaim you and your life. This 6-day intensive program (5 days + 1 day synthesis and planning), led by Trish Haight, is specifically designed for women who have been impacted by deception, infidelity, and betrayal trauma.
Learn how to tap into your innate healing potential, allowing it to soothe your suffering, creating a rhythm of relief that can move you into embracing and reclaiming your sense of self.
Connect with other women who deeply understand what your heart and soul are going through.
Develop tools and strategies to move forward with confidence, momentum, and resilience.
Emerge from the devastation of deception, infidelity, and betrayal as a more embodied, wiser, and empowered woman than ever before.
Landing
Arrive and settle into a safe and supportive environment. Learn and create a process of illumination about how you landed here, the 4 critical injuries, the phases of DST-22 impacts of trauma.
Symptom Progression Phase
Understand and illuminate the complex symptoms of deception and betrayal trauma, the ripple effect of harm, and how to develop skills to move into wholeness, more embodied with an increased capacity to navigate it all.
Learn about the hidden aspects of deceptive sexuality and illuminate the impacts on you and your life.
DSTT Stages of Healing
Learn how to move through the Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment (DSTT) model and its 5 stages of healing.
Exposure Phase & Critical Incidents
Digging deeper into understanding the layers of reality ego fragmentation, attachment injuries, trust ruptures, gut brain injury, due to the discovery of deceptive sexuality, infidelity, and betrayal.
Integrate the 5-days, create an illuminated plan for continued reformation, reclamation, rebound, restoration and rising.
July 29 – August 2, 2024
August 8, 2024
Synthesis & Planning
8:00 AM – 4:00 PM PST
(with breaks)
This psychoeducation process is a powerful supplement to your existing therapy, not a replacement.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Secure your spot in the
“HERE I AM BECOMING: The Sister Course”
and begin your journey of healing and transformation.
Virtually Connect with Trish prior to Registration Deadline:
July 20, 2024
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Tap Into The Truth
Trish has created a much needed space where women who find themselves in this devastating and often isolating situation can feel held, seen, and heard. The skills learned are invaluable, and make the impossible seem possible. She welcomes you and meets you wherever you are, wraps her arms around you with her wisdom and care, and gives you tools to start the process of healing. If you come in feeling broken, you leave with the knowledge of how to begin putting the pieces together. She will take a group of women who feel like their whole world has caved in, guide and educate them with passionate empathy, and send them out into the world with a new set of wings.
I came into her course not knowing what to expect. I didn’t care. I just knew I needed help and I was desperate. What I experienced and left with is more than I could have ever hoped for. My first day was a wreck, I had zero support at home- but I quickly found strength in my fellow women warriors, with Trish at the helm of it all. In just five days, I was transformed. As the workshop came to a close, I could breathe deeper, stand taller, even laugh again – things that felt so distant and unreachable on Day 1.
I owe immense gratitude to Trish for providing such a sacred and empowering space, for helping me find the woman I used to be and loved so much, for sharing her beautiful talent for guidance, and for being a light in the darkest times of my life. Thank you, Trish. You are an absolute Gift.
Trish and her Here I Am Becoming workshop have given me life. Over the course of six days, she led us through the stages of deceptive sexuality and its impact with skill and tender care: I now have the language and framework I have sought and craved for over two decades! But Trish gave us so much more. Our six days flowed with purpose, deepening understanding, a careful, adeptly guided exploration of our own painful stories, the beautiful thread of other women’s voices, new tools and practices to attend to our old story, and hope in pursuing a new one. I feel an expansiveness in me; becoming, indeed. Not a single minute of our 42 hours together was wasted. I will be forever, profoundly grateful for Trish!
Trish Haight’s 6-day intensive was an amazing experience! She provided a sacred space to learn, process, and begin to heal from betrayal trauma. Her ability to move you through each phase with intentionality, sensitivity, and safety made me feel seen, heard, felt, fully known, and loved for the first time as an adult. As a group, we were able to hold space for each other through sharing, reflection, and connection. Trish was able to weave the complex psychoeducational content with beautiful art, breath work, music, poetry, somatic activities, and other right brain work which helped me to understand, digest, and metabolize the deep trauma and abuse I have endured for over 40 years.
At the end of day 6, I felt empowered with the knowledge, skills, and strategies I need to move forward. Gaining a new sense of self and agency by reclaiming the parts I love about myself and discarding the parts that no longer serve me, I can step into the becoming of my authentic self with purpose and vitality. Healing takes time and although I am not there yet, I know I am on the right path and I am not alone.
Thank you, Trish, for sharing your infinite wisdom, experience, and encouragement on this journey of becoming. Thank you to the ladies in our group, my sisters, for your vulnerability, authenticity, and acceptance. You all left an indelible imprint on my heart and soul.
It was such a blessing to be able to attend Trish’s 6-day intensive. Trish connected lovingly and authentically with each participant. She helped me to dig deeply into my emotions and process the grief and trauma I often try to hold at bay in my ineffective attempt to protect myself from pain. The material is weighty and important, and connecting with other resilient women and finding joy and humor together was so restorative. I love Trish’s incorporation of both breath and art into every aspect of the program. I intend to take these tools forward with me as I rebuild from the destruction my husband has created in my family. I arrived in sorrow and fear, but left feeling hopeful, courageous, and confident.
Trish and her profoundly comprehensive therapeutic work are safe harbor from the onslaught of betrayal and its subsequent wasteland of confusion, pain, despair, isolation and reverberating Trauma.
Trish helped me to finally anchor, rebuild and restore. She helped me understand What Happened. After decades of gaslighting, manipulations, and emotional assault, she brought clear light, deep care, and real healing. Trish adeptly uses a multitude of techniques to compassionately confront the complexities of betrayal trauma, while helping release its root adhesions to both psyche and body.
This Intensive has been a crucial piece to my healing process. I was extremely isolated. To be with other women who were also impacted by betrayal trauma, was an incredible gift. The freedom to share without shame, to support one another, and to again experience deep trust, created a bulwark of strength I sorely lacked before the Intensive.
Trish brilliantly and compassionately tends to each individual in the group setting, that also ignites a profound collective healing. My life is profoundly richer for it. If any woman is suffering from betrayal trauma and has the opportunity to attend one of Trish’s Group Intensives, I urgently recommend they take advantage of this extraordinary lifeline opportunity. Thank you Trish!
Taking Trish’s intensive was a magical and healing experience, to say the least. There were so many synchronicities – some as simple as butterflies outside the window and butterfly cards gifted to us by a fellow student. Others were more profound such as three nieces (one from each of us) born within 3 days of each other, with 3 candles set out and lit for each one. The material itself is the most comprehensive material I’ve ever come across in regards to physical, psychological, emotional, spiritual, and societal impacts of Sexual Addiction, and in particular on partners and families. As we moved through the material, Trish paid careful attention to how each member of our group responded. This woman has mastered the craft of attunement. She noticed the subtle nuances such as a change in breath or eyes glazing over from disassociation, to more obvious trauma responses like involuntary muscle spasms in the face or head. I am forever grateful for the opportunity to be seen and held as I confronted this life-altering wound in the safety of this container (the course). Thank you, Trish, for this innovative work that paves the way for restorative, informational, and relational justice for so many women going through and struggling to thrive beyond this trauma.
I am so grateful I was able to be part of the 6-day intensive. Trish has a way of being able to hold space for everyone simultaneously, and tap into each of us like she can see directly into our soul! She has given me so much I didn’t even know I was missing. My voice, permission to unlock my heart, and led me to a path of healing I was running from. I was so damaged from all the years of betrayal and pain, I could never imagine there is hope for me, there IS a path to healing. Trish with her infinite patience, kindest heart and wisdom literally led me to a place of empowerment, uncovered my buried voice, and gave me the confidence to be vulnerable. Being there with her and the other woman for 6 days, was life changing and I am looking forward and ready to continue on my healing path.
Trish has changed my life! She gave me hope when I had none left. She is the absolute best person to guide you through healing and heartbreak. Her energy, her loving soul and ability to get through to the group and me personally was solid. In the 4-day webinar, and from what I thought not possible, Trish helped me move through the pain, emotions, and tough things that I wasn’t able to work through in years of therapy. Trish is a truly special person, with a gift of helping others in a way I’ve never experienced in my life. I felt heard, safe, understood at a very deep level. She touched my heart and soul, and I feel so blessed and forever grateful for having found her and the 4-day course. Trish has made such an impact on me and my healing journey. I HIGHLY recommend her workshops.